The net friends send the placard to expose to the sun the Chengdu gentlemen to find a wife budget – Sohu news

　　Other day, some online forum had net friend to send the placard to expose to the sun the marriage cost, said that Chengdu the gentleman bought homes buys the car, married a on condition the wife needed 700,000 Yuan probably.

　　Regarding this, the net friends state views. Has the feminine net friend to express that its algorithm is too absolute, the marriage expenditure is the groom’s family is paying by no means all.

　　The concerned expert said that the marriage should spend the how much money is two person’s matters, a 700,000 Yuan saying did not have the commeasurability and operational.

　　How to calculate? Purchases homes to buy Che Zhanda the head

　　Net friend’s card said that to purchase set of 80 square meters even price 6000 Yuan houses in the urban district, 100,000 Yuan ordinary riding instead of walking automobiles calculate, in addition afterward new home repair arrangement, as well as the arrangement wedding ceremony needs the expenditure, altogether needs 676,000 Yuan. If counted again is in love two years 24,000 Yuan, the grand total obtains a Chengdu man to ask to cost of on condition wife is 700,000.

　　This net friend has also enumerated Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and other place the man marriage costs. And, Shanghai is highest, needs to spend 1,400,200, although other cities the amount has decreasing progressively, but has not been lower than 500,000, over two-thirds expenditures are used in buying homes and buying the car.

　　Asks for the wife to the Chengdu men spend 700,000 Yuan views, the net friends to have wide divided opinions. Some people think that the budget is excessively high, if buys the car not necessarily not to buy 100,000 Yuan. Some feminine net friends especially pointed out that in the real life marries, male and female both sides are paying. The bride’s side must defer to this standard to marry by no means that more people pay great attention to the sentiment to be more.

　　Too absolute! In fact the bride’s side is also disbursing money

　　Yesterday, the reporter carried on the stochastic investigation in the street to resident. In view of marriage cost estimate in greatest disbursement: Purchases homes and buys the car, occupies over 50% the nubile feminine resident said that they did not oppose two people undertake the home loan together, but how the key must look at the opposite party moral behavior. As for automobile, because is not the daily necessity, actually when may delay to financial circumstance after marriage to be better said again. Therefore, the net friend so-called 700,000 Yuan marriage cost estimate is extremely absolute.

　　25-year-old Miss Liu lives in nearby the southwest Jiaotong University, will hold her of wedding ceremony according to next week, she and boyfriend is in love less than two years, the marriage room, although is the groom’s family disburses money to buy, but only paid 120,000 Yuan heads to pay, but also needed two people after marriage to repay together. But the house repairs and purchases the furniture electrical appliances’ money is two person’s common savings, the insufficient part has wanted with the bilateral parents. As for the automobile, they had not considered temporarily. Manages wedding ceremony banquet the money, listened to marry the friend saying that received the cash as a present may arrive it sufficiently. Two people of marriage costs, “altogether probably 250,000, my family altogether left more than 80,000.”

　　With sharing the masculine disbursement is more frequent

　　City wedding association president Meng Ting said that this view is extremely extreme. He said that presently after the society entered 80, married the peak, this generation of person to marriage whether must let the idea which the man pays, was starting to have the change gradually. Has the female, because does not want the total dependence male, favors one fairer way. In fact, Chengdu many new people are undertaken buying homes to pay when marriage by a Fang courtyard, is undertaken the family to install the expense by a Fang courtyard. As for the automobile, is not each family will buy the car. Two people were in love duration not to be indefinite, the expense is different from person to person.

　　Mongolian association president said that last year Chengdu altogether had 120,000 pairs of new people to marry according to the statistics, at the wedding ceremony and honeymoon average expense was 57000 Yuan. If pays 30% ways to purchase one set of 80 square meters and even price 5500 Yuan housing in Chengdu with, buys a price below 50,000 Yuan small car, marriage cost of the men and women approximately about 300,000 Yuan. In fact, this money mostly together is disbursed by male and female both sides, was only the masculine disbursement proportion is slightly big, occupies 60%~70%.

　　Looked how the situation marries can decide standard

　　The province Social Science Institute sociology assistant manager Hu Guangwei said that the marriage is two people or is two family private affairs, should not some fixed standard, for instance certain request have a housing in the urban district, or must have one price over 100,000 Yuan automobile and so on. More importantly must regard own state of business to decide, do not compete with others.

　　The renowned psychologist and Sichuan University Professor Gesang Ze kernel believes that what the preparation married the young people should pay great attention is the family significance. Discusses a family establishment standard, is smaller than the significance which the family itself has by far. What soil has to plant what seed, the management and attendance is most important. Not necessarily must have the vehicle to have room to marry, not necessarily is the groom’s family spends, so long as both sides approve and are glad then. Chengdu Business reporter Wang Bo